Once the golden child squander all the parents funds, the daughter (not favoured child) will cut all contact and will not help in anyway. I suggest if OP sells that second hand car, use those funds with additional $ and buy the daughter a new car. YTA OP. 144. AITA for selling "my daughter's" car? I (56M) have a son (28M) and a daughter (22F). I like both of my kids equally however they are different individuals with different lives so I help …I offered my aunt and uncle to move in my house, as my fiancé and I were building a new house and I was basically living with him and never at the house. They were thankful. I was renting to them for 800/month but wanted to sell as I couldn’t change my address to the new house. I shared they would get priority.My Male/37 son (9 years old) has CHD. We knew my son had a problem since my ex-wife was pregnant with him. he had an enormous procedure on his heart when he was 10 days old. We had a huge responsibility of making sure he was recovering and the only people we talked to at the time were surgeons,pediatricians, and cardiologists.The house is an asset that was left to you to do as you please. It is absurd for anybody in your family to assume that you would live in the house for life. Just wait, they WILL ask for some of the money to help them get over the trauma of you selling the house. Just remember: "No" is a complete sentence. MegC18.YTA. You put your own love life and interests ahead of your son and his wellbeing. You probably just ruined all chance of a happy blended family. I hope you really love your stepdaughter and husband, because I have feeling your son isn't going to be too interested in you and your new family once he turns 18. I (m52) have two 17 year olds ‘Jenna’ and ‘Nathan’. When they bought got their driver’s licenses I took them out to each purchase care. The deal was that if they wanted a car out of my budget of 20k they would pay for the balance. My daughter chose a car within that range. While my son chose a car that was around 3 grand over.So she turned to the “Am I The A**hole” (AITA) subReddit for moral judgment on a hypothetical question. She asked: “AITA for selling my late husband’s classic car instead of gifting it to my son?” The Original Poster (OP) explained: “My late husband (passed away in 2013) was a classic car guy. AITA for kicking out our youngest child at 19 so we can sell the house and downsize for our earlt retirement? My wife and I have three children (25F, 22M, 19M) we're 45. We've both always had the plan to work hard while we're younger and retire early. Thankfully we've gotten lucky in life, and we're now in a position to do that with our savings.Image credits: Milan Popovic (not the actual photo) The man wasn’t happy about his parents including his ex-girlfriend in their family, but eventually let go of it. A woman brought it to Reddit when her son’s wife opened up to her about not being comfortable with her husband’s ex-girlfriend being invited to all the family events, and …I know selling the house without telling him that the closing was completed wasn’t a good thing. I know it was wrong. The buyer and my lawyer negotiated enough time for me to empty my house, so I was thinking of just putting everything in a storage unit and coming back and making a decision. He said he was going to go spend a week with an ...AITA for selling my old car instead of giving it to my stepbrother. When I (F26) was younger my dad and I used to love talking about cars. He’d always boast about how he’d buy “a big gray Mercedes” and drive around with. Sadly he passed away when I was about 19, it was hard dealing with it and it still is hard to deal with now. I have a son "D'Andre" (15m) who likes to collect stuff. He has stacks of shoes - Shoes that are too big, too small, and/or perfect size. He also has a huge collection of books, a specific Nike sweatshirt, Bape sweatshirts, laptops and desktops (I think he has at least 4 of his dad's old MacBook laptops and pcs), and coins. They tell me to leave their house. I lost it, and told them that they had 30 days to get out. Tell my son I'm selling the house and he could find somewhere else to live with all of you. I go to a realtor in town and list the house for sale. They call my son at work and tell him what I said. Apparently they thought that he owned the house.I have two kids a 15 year old son and his 13 year old sister. My son has lots of transformers his collection is at least worth 5000 . For example son has 20 masterpiece figure that are each 100 dollar plus toys. My sons father found a legal loophole in order to avoid paying child support for my son and daughter. I offered my aunt and uncle to move in my house, as my fiancé and I were building a new house and I was basically living with him and never at the house. They were thankful. I was renting to them for 800/month but wanted to sell as I couldn’t change my address to the new house. I shared they would get priority.He only found out about trips while he was on the way to them. This continued until my son turned 19 and my ex remarried, removing me from her focus. My son is now 20 and has found out that we purposely did this for most of his childhood and he is furious. He says we treated him as an outsider. I apologized profusely, as did my wife.My sister Lisa (27 F) had her wedding yesterday. She wanted it to be child-free. But she said that my son Jack (17 M) can join. She just came in to invite us and said "I am having a child-free wedding, so don't bring in anyone else if they're kids. But anyway, all of you are invited" (including Jack).Looking back, it was an excellent call by my parents - he was way too much of a Mama’s Boy, and I did end up finishing my degree. Bulletin dodged. He ended up ballooning to over 450 lbs and became a “stay at home dad” (I’m guessing it was difficult to get a job in his industry at his weight) for many years before dying of a heart attack in his sleep at 40.I love my son and hubs and I are focused on raising him right, but if he ever did something like that, I really hope I don't lose my mind and say something so hateful. I will always love my son, but I hope I would also be the same one to drag him off to jail myself if he dares hurt someone he supposed to love and care for. As well as cheat. My friend had to move into a broom closet in the basement of our mutual friends' house, she was charged ridiculously for rent, not allowed to use the bathroom or kitchen (not even to feed herself or her son, or bathe her son) and ended up having to work 4 jobs to get herself out of the situation which took up until about September of this year.By this point I was pissed, I began to scream at her, yelling about how my son could have gotten hurt. I was so pissed I hadn't even noticed that she'd started to cry. By that point I was asked to leave by the principal. My wife and some of my friends think I'm in the right, but my parents and the other half of my friends think I went too far.His truck is a ford and her car is a BMW, it is a well liked model and can sell very easily, probably more than the truck. I dont think succeeding in HVAC is failure. My son did not get any vehicle except share mine until he finished school, my …I (F32) got a private text this morning from the mother of my son’s (M7) classmate. She told me that apparently my son has been calling her daughter’s traditional lunch weird and things as such and apparently that is making her daughter feel uncomfortable and insecure. She asked me to please talk to my son about being more sensitive and ...(AITA) forum, user u/platefoodaway said she'd suspected her 17-year-old son is gay for a while. "My son is fairly masculine/straight acting if that makes sense, however he's very obviously had a ...Edit 2: You would only be the asshole if you sold it without telling them first. Complaining about having a house bought for you would be incredibly ungrateful. As of now I think it's entirely possible for you to reach a compromise with your son - for example moving to a 3 bedroom house if they need extra rooms. 2.2K.AITA for selling my house to my son? - YouTube Your virtual mental health counselor, with a free trial: https://serena.chat/Subscribe to get amazing stories:...I was raised by my mum and had virtually nothing to do with my dad throughout my childhood. My mum was an international student and her family cut ties with her due to the circumstances of my birth. Tragically, two years ago, I lost my mum to cancer and thus I was placed under the care of my dad. My dad has remarried and has two sons (5 and 7 ...Trigger Warnings: emotional abuse, verbal abuse, possible parental alienation, infantilizing behaviors. Original Post - Nov 7, 2023. My (26F) father (59M) has been dating "Paula" (38F) for 4 years. I never got to know her well, as I was about to move out when we met. My sister (20F) still lives between our parents and likes Paula, but finds her ...Tue, February 09, 2021 at 1:32:58 PM EST. A 19-year-old is fed up with babysitting her 12-year-old little brother. She went on Reddit ’s “ Am I the A****** ” forum after telling her mom her brother wasn’t her responsibility. The unemployed teenager was saddled with looking after her brother while he was homeschooled due to the pandemic.My advice to somebody in the OP’s position would be to have the heirloom in question appraised, decide the minimum price they’re willing to settle for, offer relatives first refusal at 25% over that price, and, if somebody is willing to buy, allow themselves to be bartered down to the minimum price in the name of family.And a recent post on the AITA subreddit just might take the dress drama cake. One man explained to the internet that when his sister got engaged last year, she asked his 17-year-old son to make ...My son has lived with me the past three years with his son and daughter. My son helps a lot with taking care of the house and doing errands for me. I feel he has invested a lot into the house labor wise. I decided to offer to sell it to him at a good deal. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I cancelled my teenager daughter's birthday after she stole from her sister, sold the doll she stole, and used the money to buy clothes. My daughter's friends, and other relatives claim that cancelling her birthday was too far and that I shouldn't have pushed ...My husband (58 M) and I (56 F) recently met my son’s (24 M) girlfriend for the first time. He’s been crazy about her. Apparently they’ve been dating for a year before he decided to have her meet us officially. What he’s told us about her all seems great: she just got her degree, was enjoying her job, family-oriented, etc.,Sit them both down and apologize sincerely. Let them know you support them, and you love them unconditionally. If y’all don’t have good sex ed in your school district, OP, you need to make time to discuss gay sex with your son. Make sure he knows how to use condoms properly and all that. 827.I love my son and hubs and I are focused on raising him right, but if he ever did something like that, I really hope I don't lose my mind and say something so hateful. I will always love my son, but I hope I would also be the same one to drag him off to jail myself if he dares hurt someone he supposed to love and care for. As well as cheat. “I (47M) inherited a property from my father 11 years ago. For the past five years I’ve been renting the house to a nice family with a young child (5M). They’ve been great tenants and there haven’t been any issues. A month ago I was approached by a …In case this story gets deleted/removed: AITA for telling my son to leave my house after he announced his engagement? My son Adam's (24) best friend Carlos (25) passed away over 2 years ago in a car accident, this loss completely devastated Adam to the point where he lost his job, they were like brothers and our family have known his family for years. AITA for kicking out our youngest child at 19 so we can sell the house and downsize for our earlt retirement? My wife and I have three children (25F, 22M, 19M) we're 45. We've both always had the plan to work hard while we're younger and retire early. Thankfully we've gotten lucky in life, and we're now in a position to do that with our savings.I should mention that I too am very angry at what happened and what I feel is the disrespect shown to me and especially my kids. I am torn on whether to encourage my son to apologize contingent on a mutual apology to us. AITA? EDIT 1). The title says my son and his MIL. I meant my MIL, his step-grandmother.2 days ago, My son called crying saying his stepdad punished him by taking his bicycle and selling it for no reason. I was livid. I went to have a word with his stepdad and he told me that there WAS a reason and that is the fact that my son "badmouthed" him to the therapist, and claimed that he treated the dog poorly. I was floored at this.(1 told my son what my husband did. (2 I could've been an ah because now my husband's relationship with my son is damaged and there is so much tension between them that I don't think will get fixed. Maybe I should've kept it between the adults. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts!If you're new to the AITA world, it's a popular subreddit where users ask — you guessed it — if they're assholes. ABC. Today we are talking about a quite interesting situation. The story comes ...YTA. You put your own love life and interests ahead of your son and his wellbeing. You probably just ruined all chance of a happy blended family. I hope you really love your stepdaughter and husband, because I have feeling your son isn't going to be too interested in you and your new family once he turns 18. Her auntie was visiting and said that my wife's brother needed a computer for schoolwork. Since all I ever did was play games on it she gave it to her brother for university. I tried to get it back. She said it would be rude. I explained that the only reason all she saw me do with it was "play games" that was because I was home.Tell him if there is a repeat of his inappropriate behavior, he will have to earn it back. As for your sister, you offered to give her something that you shouldn't have. I guess you are buying your niece a PS5. YTA you don't just sell other people thing without their permission even if he your own son. AITA for telling my son he either has to sell his car or move out. My son is 24 and he has a Charger that my dad left him when he passed away. It is a beautiful car and I wish my dad had left it to me but that isn't the point. My son and him loved working on it together. That's why my son got it. “AITA for selling my late husband’s classic car instead of gifting it to my son?” The Original Poster (OP) explained: “My late husband (passed away in 2013) was a classic car guy. …It was $7000 20 years ago. $7,000 in 1980 is equivalent in purchasing power to about $25,919.45 today, an increase of $18,919.45 over 43 years. The dollar had an average inflation rate of 3.09% per year between 1980 and today, producing a cumulative price increase of 270.28%. 258.You get 1/3 to 1/2 of the estate depending on the state you are in. You get reimbursed from the estate for ANY outlays, back child support, etc ... not just from the house, but the estate. If no money in the estate, then you can go after the beneficiaries. “AITA for forcing my son to sell the car he is inheriting?” #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #aita #redditaita #aitareddit #redditstoriestts #minecraftparkour #askreddit #reels #reelsinstagram #instagram #trending #viral #explore #love #instagood #explorepage #tiktok #reelitfeelit #trendy #funnyvideos “AITA for selling my late husband’s classic car instead of gifting it to my son?” The Original Poster (OP) explained: “My late husband (passed away in 2013) was a classic car guy. …NTA in the slightest! Your son is a pathetic little lizard who doesn’t deserve to breathe the same air as your awesomeness and your friends should be able to see that. On top of that your dad can just make a different heir if he wants one so bad. Enjoy your fun money without your turd of a kid!! I offered my aunt and uncle to move in my house, as my fiancé and I were building a new house and I was basically living with him and never at the house. They were thankful. I was renting to them for 800/month but wanted to sell as I couldn’t change my address to the new house. I shared they would get priority.Trigger Warnings: emotional abuse, verbal abuse, possible parental alienation, infantilizing behaviors. Original Post - Nov 7, 2023. My (26F) father (59M) has been dating "Paula" (38F) for 4 years. I never got to know her well, as I was about to move out when we met. My sister (20F) still lives between our parents and likes Paula, but finds her ...AITA for kicking my son out of my house? I (F32) had my son (M16) when I was 16, his father left me when he found out I was pregnant. I had big dreams for my life and I had to give it all away because of my son. I would’ve aborted him but my parents wanted me to raise him because I went and got pregnant on my own, then I had to raise him on ... My friend had to move into a broom closet in the basement of our mutual friends' house, she was charged ridiculously for rent, not allowed to use the bathroom or kitchen (not even to feed herself or her son, or bathe her son) and ended up having to work 4 jobs to get herself out of the situation which took up until about September of this year.The house is an asset that was left to you to do as you please. It is absurd for anybody in your family to assume that you would live in the house for life. Just wait, they WILL ask for some of the money to help them get over the trauma of you selling the house. Just remember: "No" is a complete sentence. MegC18.Tell your dad he can back pay all the child support payment plus half off the price of the car (car split 50/50 between you and your half brother) if he wants it. Otherwise, he’s a stranger to you and he can pay full price. 1.Tell your dad he can back pay all the child support payment plus half off the price of the car (car split 50/50 between you and your half brother) if he wants it. Otherwise, he’s a stranger to you and he can pay full price. 1.AITA for selling my old car instead of giving it to my stepbrother. When I (F26) was younger my dad and I used to love talking about cars. He’d always boast about how he’d buy “a big gray Mercedes” and drive around with. Sadly he passed away when I was about 19, it was hard dealing with it and it still is hard to deal with now.AITA for selling "my daughter's" car? I (56M) have a son (28M) and a daughter (22F). I like both of my kids equally however they are different individuals with different lives so I help …. She contradicts herself, she talks aboutDuring this dinner, my sister asked my son NTA, Not only is it presumptuous for them to expect you to sell them, but they apparently expected you to take a financial hit by selling them under current market value. That's audacious. 24. DDecimal Pooperintendant [61] • 2 yr. ago. NTA, tell them to stuff it, don't sell them your stuff. 17. What happened next was my son got really infuriated and sai “AITA for forcing my son to sell the car he is inheriting?” #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #aita #redditaita #aitareddit #redditstoriestts #minecraftparkour #askreddit #reels #reelsinstagram #instagram #trending #viral #explore #love #instagood #explorepage #tiktok #reelitfeelit #trendy #funnyvideos AITA for selling my Husband’s old action figu...
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