My friend was already angry with me and it made her angrier after I called the cops Help keep the sub engaging! Don't downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA! Follow the link above to learn moreWelcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I want to know if im the ahole for calling the cops on my boyfriend because he thinks im the aholeNTA you don’t have to feel bad for calling the police. Physical abuse in a relationship is not normal and should not be accepted. You did exactly the right thing with calling the police. NTA you deserve protection from this man. You all need therapy to help you break your bond to this abuser.Then they came out and took my dad into custody (for 1 day) after that some of my family have been shouting at us for calling the police SO AITA? Share Add a Comment. Sort by: Best. Open comment sort options. Best. Top. New ... Update: AITA for letting my (32f) husband (30m) feel emasculated? - original removed from the other subreddit ...About five minutes later I received a call from my boyfriend under the influence yelling at me for sending the police. He said we are over and he never wants to speak again. I was in disbelief that was he was angry,That is child abuse on your mother's part. Your brother should be paying child support, yet he chooses not to work and steal from you. Pressing charges is the right and smart thing to do. First of all, it will force your brother - for the first time in his life - to be accountable for his actions.Looking out, I saw someone getting into my car and driving off. I panicked, thinking my car was being stolen, and called the police. I didn't realize it was Jack because it was dark, and honestly, I didn't think he would go as far as to take my car without permission. The police intercepted him, and it turned out that his wife had gone into labor.AITA for calling the police on my mother-in-law? "I 28f got married to my husband 34m a week ago. We got engaged about a year ago and when I got engaged my mother gave me a pair of earrings which she said every woman for generations in our family has worn to their weddings. They are 4.00ct dangling earrings and they are worth a lot.AITA for calling the Police on my husband after I found that he was hiding my son's motorcycle? I got my son a 7k motorcycle for his 18th birthday this past june. My son is obssessed with automobile and loves motorcycles.Last night my (35M) Fiance (38F) left in the evening to give a friend's son a ride back to his home. She implied she'd be home before 9. She left at around 7:45. 10:15 rolled around and she still wasn't home. I texted and she apologized to me, saying that her friend's son was actually in the next town over (maybe 30 minutes away) and she was ...Me(25M), my brother Jack(27M) and his wife Jill(25F). It all started when Jack and Jill got pregnant. Their lease almost ended and my parents invited them to stay at our house. The day they came, Jack asked me why I haven't moved out of my room yet. I was confused, like wtf, and he told me that he and Jill will be at my room and I go to guest room.Author admin Posted on March 16, 2023 March 16, 2023 Categories AITA Post navigation Previous Previous post: AITA For Reporting My Classmates For That I Have Pretty PrivilegeMy husband is there at 8:30am waiting. 8:50am Margo texts us the inspector is running behind. Meanwhile, my husband is looking out the window at Justin talking with a woman and the prospective buyer (their daughter). My husband suspects something is going on and texts both Margo and Justin that ONLY the inspector and Justin are allowed in.AITA for calling police on my Parents? Not the A-hole. I (32M) am at no contact with my parents now for years, and avoided pretty much any kind of contact with them outside funerals or marriages of common known family/people. The reason is they pretty much took the college fund which my grandparents set up for both of us (my Sister Ann and Me ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) Called the police on my sister (2) Overreacted about my baby stuff being stolen. Help keep the sub engaging!NTA: although calling the police on this is definitely overkill. I would (1) install a security camera system that covers the front of your house to the property line, (2) disconnect the hose from the house, even if you leave the hose out on the ground, kiddos might use it less often that way, and (3) issue a letter in writing that if the kids are not supervised by a parent who keeps them off ...this past week. My husband had an emergency (dad had a medical emergency) and wanted someone to watch our son. he asked my older son and he refused because he was going out with friends. he also asked my daughter but she locked herself in her room to study. I was at the restaurant with my brother meeting his girlfriend for the first time.AITA For Calling The Police On My Husband? (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/mgj83i/aita_for_calling_the_police_on_my_...I (18) called the police on my dad (56) 7 days ago after he physically attacked me. He has a history for being violent, but he's not one of those abusive guys that just come home and feel like beating the wife and kids. It happens rarely, and the last time I was hit was three years ago.This pushed me over my limit. I called 911, my sister takes the phone out of my hand and hangs up. Of course they call back asking me for my name and address and if everything's alright. I give them the info they asked and said yes out of fear. The police still come for a check in and we just told them it was just a verbal argument over our dog.AITA for calling the police on my neighbor and probably getting cps called. TL:DR- My new neighbor called the cops on me and I may have gotten CPS called on her. I (23F) graduated from college in May of this year with a Bachelor of Accounting. After searching for a job all throughout the summer, I finally landed a job in California.Note: we didn't call 911 because we could hear the woman already on the phone, and we didn't see anything, just heard. (No violence was recorded on our camera) I include this because my husband initially thought the kids were playing music when the adults left, but once the kids were gone, the music continued.My boyfriend and my relationship has been kind of rocky the last few months. We've been together on and off for 8 years. He struggles with substance abuse and mental health issues (he has made suicide attempts in the past.) He has a phobia of police due to being arrested for problems he's caused while under the influence.He, of course, didn't listen and started drinking again which lead to some not-so-nice conversations over text and call with Jane and myself from him. The day I called the cops on him, he was running from the cops because his P.O. had put a warrant out for him since he missed a meeting with her and he "wasn't ready to go to prison" so he ran ...KronkLaSworda Commander in Cheeks [296] • 9 mo. ago. NTA. "the neighbours were in the streets aiming the fireworks at the houses and scaring everyone," Harassment. The police arrested them on just cause. "they didn't care then threatened me with a firework". physical threat with potential harm from burns.My husband and I have been together for 4 years. I have two kids (17m /19f). and their half brother is 3 years old. this past week. My husband had an emergency (dad had a medical emergency) and wanted someone to watch our son. he asked my older son and he refused because he was going out with friends. he also asked my daughter but she locked herself in her room to study. I was at the ...Yeah, this is fucking ludicrous. Imagine this guy with kids. The lack of apology afterwards is IMO an even bigger deal. Like, let's be SUPER generous for a moment and give him the benefit of the doubt that like it was an impulse joking reaction, and once he did it he didn't have a way to get OUT of the situation without feeling embarrassed, and as more and more timAita for calling the police on my mother. My mother, who has been diagnosed and struggles with multiple mental disorders such as depression, bipolar, and narcissism, has a habit of threatening suicide anytime something doesn't go her way. I, (F27), no longer live close enough to stop by and verify she hasn't gone through with her threats.ADMIN MOD. AITA for calling the cops on my husband's aunt and uncle? Not the A-hole. So my husband's grandmother lives with my MILs sister and her husband, and they have been neglecting and gaslighting her for over a year now. They beg her for her SS check when she and her husband are drs and make around 200k EACH!As a concerned sibling, I called the police to do a welfare check. Unknown to my knowledge they showed up at 2:30 in the morning. I then this morning received nasty messages from my father, step sibling and brother. I had reason for this check, my father was abusive to my now deceased mother, which I believe, was at his hands.AITA for calling the cops on my crush? Advice Needed ... The police know that I struggle with self harm and suicidal tendencies, and they still took the threats seriously. I currently have him blocked, so he doesn't have access to any texts between us (the texts were through instagram). ... AITA for flipping out on my MIL and husband for eating ...My husband and I work long shifts, We have 3 kids and for years we've been hiring babysitters of different kinds to help with the kids. my oldest is my 14 yo daughter Lauren. She's been going through hard phase after her bestOP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be the asshole for calling the police on my sister even though she was only trying to help and it could have affected her job if it was actually illegal. Help keep the sub engaging!It's been a few days since this has happened, I have not heard from my son at all and the police have yet to find him. I've never even considered calling the police on my own son no matter what he's done in the past, and I can't help but thinking there could have been some other way to solve this without getting the authorities involved.My husband I had a date day this past weekend. It included our first Uber ride since the pandemic started, lots of beverages and snacks at restaurants with outdoor seating,... Edit...Life After the Police Academy - What happens once you graduate from a police academy? Do you hit the streets immediately? Not exactly. Learn more about life after the police academ...AITA For Calling The Police On My Husband? (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/mgj83i/aita_for_calling_the_police_on_my_...She grabed her purse to go anyway and I told her, that the moment she walks out that door I will call the police for child abandonment. I was serious and she knew it. She broke down and screamed what a horrible human being I am, then she ran to her room. She had complete mental breakdown. When Jack and my parents came home we had the biggest ...AITA for calling the police on my mother in law? I 28f got married to my husband 34m a week ago. We got engaged about a year ago and when I got engaged my mother gave me a pair of earrings which she said every woman for generations in our family has worn to their weddings. They are 4.00ct dangling earrings and they are worth a lot.AITA for calling the police on my neighbor and probably getting cps called. TL:DR- My new neighbor called the cops on me and I may have gotten CPS called on her. I (23F) graduated from college in May of this year with a Bachelor of Accounting. After searching for a job all throughout the summer, I finally landed a job in California.My husband and I recently moved into a new apartment with our one-year-old son. It is so sweet and we’ve really worked VERY hard to make it into a home for our son. Yeah, no. Using the threat of police action to get their neighbor to abide by unjust laws is still shitty.Eventually my mother succeeded. But that was my wake up call. We were able to patch it back together over several months of deep discussions and intense souls searching for me. Now we're happily married and have a kid with a second on the way. I'm low contact with my mom. I took my wake-up call and completely changed my life.AITA for calling the police on my neighbor? Not the A-hole. For a little bit of background, I live in a neighborhood that is quite crowded and many of the parents let their children roam the neighborhood like little packs of wildebeests and it can be frustrating. The older ones break things and have climbed on each other's shoulders to open our ...Sajem. •. The OP is correct. In Aus. a restraining order won't necessarily have a distance clause and one won't be added unless it is requested. In one state in Aus. a parent isn't allowed to file for a restraining order against a minor child (QLD) living at home.First, call a lawyer. Second, call the job back and tell them your husband screwed up and that you did not cancel the interview and you're still interested in the job. Don't know if that job is still possible but you have to try. Third, I hope you have family or friends you can stay with, because you need to move out.Last night my (35M) Fiance (38F) left in the evening to give a friend's son a ride back to his home. She implied she'd be home before 9. She left at around 7:45. 10:15 rolled around and she still wasn't home. I texted and she apologized to me, saying that her friend's son was actually in the next town over (maybe 30 minutes away) and she was ...AITA for calling university police on my friend. My friend 19f let’s call her Amanda and me 19f went to our sorority party together. Later that night Amanda was gone, we were supposed to sleep at the house next to the party, but when the party was over Amanda wasn’t there. I thought nothing of it and went to bed.17M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you…NTA you don’t have to feel bad for calling the police. Physical abuse in a relationship is not normal and should not be accepted. You did exactly the right thing with calling the police. NTA you deserve protection from this man. You all need therapy to help you break your bond to this abuser.TL;DR AITA for calling the cops on neighbors dog that's been coming on my porch for a month because she said she is NOT putting a leash on him. do you not have a back patio or yard or something where you can put food and water out.. the cat will probably still find it. Does your municipality have a leash law, you could print it out and hand it ...When the husband and wife showed up at our door their response to their fighting was "we are loud people" and accused us of traumatizing their children by calling the police. In regards to the apartment management; apparently several other residents in our building and others (townhouses) have complained and they've had the cops called ...Note: we didn't call 911 because we could hear the woman already on the phone, and we didn't see anything, just heard. (No violence was recorded on our camera) I include this because my husband initially thought the kids were playing music when the adults left, but once the kids were gone, the music continued.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Sister thinks I am the asshole for calling the cops and over-reacting to my new neighbors. I am also the AH for being unwilling to apologize to the guy I called the cops on. I think I am justified to be safe and comfortable in my house.What she is doing is illegal, and unfortunately calling the cops is probably the only way to get her to stop. She will likely only get a slap on the wrist. NTA. She is clearly on your property after you've told her not to be and she's handling your personal property after repeatedly being told not to.When we went into the house his dad informed us that he gave my bfs sister the spare key to my car that was in the lockbox because she said she needed to go somewhere. My boyfriend told him that she asked to drive my car and that we had told her no so he didn't understand why she was allowed to take it and his dad said that since my bf helped ...AITA For Calling Cops On My Husband's P-do Uncle At A Family Gathering #family #people #husband #uncle #reddit #aita #wife #kids #children #parenting. See less. Comments.ADMIN MOD. AITA for calling the cops on my husband's pedophile uncle at a family gathering? Divorce is likely in the near future and if this is what broke us, than good riddance. I've been with my husband for 6 years and I have 9 and 10 year old daughters. Roughly 3 or 4 years in to the relationship was the first time I had heard of "Uncle ...Cause it doesn't sound like your husband ever defended you by telling the kids you weren't his mistress or taking the mom to court for parental alienation. Your soon to be ex-husband was just a complicent in his kids' actions as his ex-wife was. NTA. He's being a lousy husband and a lousy father.AITA for calling the police on my neighbor? Not the A-hole. For a little bit of background, I live in a neighborhood that is quite crowded and many of the parents let their children roam the neighborhood like little packs of wildebeests and it can be frustrating. The older ones break things and have climbed on each other's shoulders to open our ...I may be the asshole because I called the police on my mother for refusing to leave my workplace. This is because she was removed by the police forcefully and I am now being harassed by members of the family on social media. This has also lead to an escalation of the situation. Help keep the sub engaging!I never imagined I'd find myself in a situation where I had to call the police on my boyfriend's family, but life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges at you. Before I dive into the details, let me provide some background on our relationship and the events that led up to this moment. OurWhen I told mom what happened, she told me not to worry and that it wasn’t stolen, she had just borrowed it. To be honest, I did lose my cool once I realized she wasn’t joking. She insisted she’d cashapp me the money when she gets paid the next day, and that she thought she’d be able to handle it before I even noticed.I called Paris, she kept declining my call so I sent her a message if she didn't come for her kids in 5 mins I'll be calling the police. She read the message and didn't respond. Then 5 mins passed so I called the police and reported it. The police came and as well a cpu (child protection unit) officer came took and my statement and the kids and ...AITA for calling cops on ex boyfriend. AITA. Me (23F) and ex-boyfriend (26M) Daniel, had been dating for 3 years. We had a very nasty breakup. On the day of breakup, we walked through this neighborhood park for our usual morning refreshment. I was very busy on my phone since my boss was texting me regarding a very interesting job and he was ...Then they came out and took my dad into custody (for 1 day) after that some of my family have been shouting at us for calling the police SO AITA? Share Add a Comment. Sort by: Best. Open comment sort options. Best. Top. New ... Update: AITA for letting my (32f) husband (30m) feel emasculated? - original removed from the other subreddit ...AITA for calling my husband a jerk after he kept making jokes about me. I tried posting this in AITA but it wouldn't post. I 24f and my husband 30m recently had our first baby, a baby girl 5 weeks. My labor was kind of hard, but I'm recovering hard. One thing my husband won't stop reminding me of though is that I pooped while pushing.The police should've arrested OP. My nephew is autistic and tends to wander off quickly, so my sister uses a leash in very public places like theme parks, or the beach. It's extremely scary cause one minute he'll be there, and the next few seconds he's gone, even though she watches him closely. She receives SO MUCH judgement for the ...She grabed her purse to go anyway and I told her, that the moment she walks out that door I will call the police for child abandonment. I was serious and she knew it. She broke down and screamed what a horrible human being I am, then she ran to her room. She had complete mental breakdown. When Jack and my parents came home we had the biggest ...First, call a lawyer. Second, call the job back and tell them your husband screwed up and that you did not cancel the interview and you're still interested in the job. Don't know if that job is still possible but you have to try. Third, I hope you have family or friends you can stay with, because you need to move out.I texted Lea saying she needed to come back and let Clover in but she told me to mind my own fing business. I warned her I would call the SPCA and that leaving Clover outside in the cold was animal abuse. She again told me to mind my business and go to work. So I googled what to do if you thought an animal was being abused in my county.Tl;dr - AITA for calling my husband immature and inappropriate for positioning our daughter's toys into a sex position? My husband keeps jokingly mentioning "doing a 69" as his Xmas present. He knows this is an act I don't like. I've done it before, multiple times, with him. I don't like it, I never have and he knows this.AITA for calling the police on my husband . For context i have been married to my 26 years hubby 30. He was verbally abusive to me prior to today. He was pushing and shoving me for two days straight and i called the police. When he heard me on the phone with the police he rushed to call the police and said im violent with him. Before we called ...cutofffamilytaway. AITAH for forcing my fiancé into cutting off his late wife's family? I, 25f, am getting married to my fiancé, 29m, in May. When we first got together he told me that he was married from 20-22yrs old to his high school sweetheart (we met when he was 25) but she passed of sepsis from a botched surgery.Zealousideal_Cat958. ADMIN MOD. AITA for calling off my wedding and telling my fiancé to move back home with mommy? I'm not going to try and swing this in my favor here by leaving out details or sugar coating anything. I was MEAN about it. He was crying. I've been with my fiancé for 7 years and we have been engaged for 3 years.ADMIN MOD. AITA for calling the police on my client? Not the A-hole. I (28F) do babysitting on the weekends to make some babysitting on the weekends to make extra cash. There is one family I definitely should've fazed out by now but the kids are cute and if I don't have another job, it's easy money. My issue is, the mom is never home on time.I had to call once. The couple living below me was arguing insanely loud. I listened and kept tabs on the situation and things escalated to him throwing stuff and telling her if she spoke again that he'd kill her. I immediately called the police and the dispatcher alerted me to the fact that I was not the only neighbor to call.I texted Lea saying she needed to come back and let Clover in but she told me to mind my own fing business. I warned her I would call the SPCA and that leaving Clover outside in the cold was animal abuse. She again told me to mind my business and go to work. So I googled what to do if you thought an animal was being abused in my county.. AITA for calling the police on my brother ? My ( My brother admitted to his actions when the police arrived, I call the police on him complaining that I don't feel safe in my own home and they arrive and ship him off to the local jail. I have to go give my side of the story to the police today as they don't know the ins and outs of the situation but I hope they throw the books at him and maybe even give him the death sentence. AITA AITA for calling the cops on my neighbors. Not I met my mother today who said she feels bad and that I didn’t need to call the police and should have let him in. AITA for calling the police on my bother because I thought he was a burglar? I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. After talking with my grandfather I came back t...
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